Whenever I photograph a young couple with one baby it really brings me back... Back to those days when my life was completely scheduled around one small human being and all of her needs. I remember that time, so fondly, when my world was ALL about my first child. When Shayla was little, my life revolved around snacks and naps and changings and peekaboo. (Of course as she grew I also learned that I needed to focus on some things OTHER than her, or I would risk losing myself...)
One of the things I loved most about working with the Marks family was truly being present to that space in time with a toddler. Honoring how much love and care and attention Tim & Rene were needing to shower on Owen. I loved watching them distract him and try to make him laugh and just how much focus there was on him and how the main priority was to keep him happy. It not only struck some beautiful chords in my memory, but actually inspired me to be a better parent, now. These days my children go potty themselves, dress themselves, and feed themselves. And because of their growing independence, I realized that I don't have nearly as much physical contact with them. All that care and snuggling really served a great need of bonding and affection. And it could continue to be so, right??? All I need to do is spend a few minutes blowing zerberts with Jadyn, or scratch Shayla's back. Or even maybe watching them sleep... that always opens my heart. :)
Thank you Tim and Rene and adorable Owen for spending the day with me. For allowing me to capture this special moment in time for your family. But most of all, for reminding me to stop and smell the roses that are my children!!! Wishing you all the best on your parenting journey, and I reallly hope I can continue to photograph your beautiful family as it grows!
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Aug 23, 2013, 2:11:36 PM
tara - I love what you wrote...and, of course, as always, your pics are GORGEOUS!